I've been with this girl for a couple of months now and want to perform anal sex on her. what do you think is the best way to get her to try? SHould I talk about it first or "accidentally" stick it in? Talk to her about it first. If she is interested in trying [...]
I've been with this girl for a couple of months now and want to perform anal sex on her. what do you think is the best way to get her to try? SHould I talk about it first or "accidentally" stick it in?
Talk to her about it first. If she is interested in trying it, I would suggest a couple of things: 1) buy a good, thick lube-like KY Jelly, 2) start slowing, maybe try a finger or a small anal plug at first to prep and loosen the area a bit, 3) Take your time and try to make it enjoyable-if she feels rushed or isn't ready then it will hurt like h*ll.
PS there is no such thing as "accidentally" sticking it in. You will REALLY hurt her if try to do that. Talk to her about it first and maybe start just by touching around the area when you are having sex to see if she likes the feeling…Then go from there!
If she doesn't want to do it, DO NOT "accidentally" stick it in. You won't be getting any kind of sex that way. Some girls don't like it or want it, and you have to respect that. I personally am not interested at all in anal sex. I mean think about it, would you like something rammed in and out of your a**?!? It's not like it's different. Women and men both have butts.
Yes, some find it pleasurable. However, I mostly hear that it's painful and it hurts really bad. plus, it's really dirty and usually smells. why on earth would you want that during sex? it can also lead to damage and infections. No, that doesn't happen too often, but it is still a possibility.
Bottom line: If she hasn't said she is against doing it, then talk to her about trying it. Otherwise, if you care about her, you would respect that she does not want that.
You cannot accidentally stick it in when it is something you r consciously doing as one of your options.. I would briefly talk about it and say it is something you want and know how to do it in a way she could really enjoy it. there has to be trust.
during sex, take it out of her vagina, and put it in her butt. she probably wont do anything about it
Speak with her about it first. If she is agrees then try it
respect her and talk to her about it.
I had sex with this girl the other night and she got abnormally wet in my bed. There was a huge wet spot the next day on my mattress. I tried to clean it up best I could with a spray carpet cleaner, but it still has a not-so-fresh poon smell. Anyone have any suggestions? [...]
I had sex with this girl the other night and she got abnormally wet in my bed. There was a huge wet spot the next day on my mattress. I tried to clean it up best I could with a spray carpet cleaner, but it still has a not-so-fresh poon smell. Anyone have any suggestions?
Use Ammonia and water to clean up the stain. this will break up the protein that is causing the odor. thing of it is–If you do not clean the whole mattress you will be left with a water/ammonia stain on the mattress. for some reason water (or any liquid) will leave a stain on a mattress because of the material they use to make the mattress with. You would be better off to shampoo the whole mattress with a shampooer then place a fan on the mattress to air dry it.
Febreeze daily for about a week. let air dry
Just yesterday, I wrote a rather bemused blog post, trying to figure out just how the results of a new study from Ohio State University could be right. after all, the researchers were claiming that young adults — people my age — saw their student loan or credit card debt, not as overwhelming or limiting, [...]
Just yesterday, I wrote a rather bemused blog post, trying to figure out just how the results of a new study from Ohio State University could be right. after all, the researchers were claiming that young adults — people my age — saw their student loan or credit card debt, not as overwhelming or limiting, but as a source of self-esteem. One of the possible reasons was that young adults saw the debt as an investment in education, which would turn over a high dividend in the future. But the results still didn’t make much sense.
Now, another writer, Sarah Burris of Future Majority, has taken the time to break down the study. she had the same reaction that I did when she read media coverage of the study: to put it succinctly, she was confused. she wrote:
“My debt has prevented me from taking jobs I wish I could take because I can’t afford them. It’s prevented me from doing a lot of things like traveling the world (a dream of mine), going to law school (a previous dream of mine), and grown up things like … not moving states every year or so because I’m looking for a new or higher paying job or better benefits. I know I’m not alone.”
As I mentioned in a previous post, I was fortunate enough to graduate last week without debt. But I still can’t pay for the things that Burris is mentioning without owing large sums of money, which I greatly fear. and I can certainly vouch for the fact that she’s not alone.
So what’s the problem with the study? Burris points out, immediately, that the researchers’ sample is misleading. instead of measuring people who are currently in debt, and suffering from the effects of the recession and inflated college costs which emerged as a serious problem in the past few years, the study looks at respondents who graduated between the years 1979 and 2004. as Burris writes,
“a majority of these people had lower amounts of debt than today – have had more time to pay off that debt, and graduates prior to 2004 weren’t being hit with the economic recession that we’ve been dealing with for the last since even 2006 and 2007.”
Burris’ conclusion is that this study isn’t really about today’s young adults. she even ends her piece by passionately declaring that stories like this – which try to cast the massive student debt crisis in a positive light – do a disservice to the people who are struggling to pay off their debt. I’ve landed somewhere in the middle. I agree with her that for me, and almost everyone I know, debt is seen utterly terrifying, an evil to be avoided at all costs.
But I’ll also speak for myself and say that the researchers account for people like me. I come from a upper-middle-class background, and I knew that even if my school didn’t have extraordinary financial aid, my parents would have helped me out. My aversion to debt is as much about not wanting to rely on my parents as it is about fear that I won’t be able to support myself. I’m aware that this is a seriously privileged position, which is why I did not debunk the study out of hand.
The researchers explained that the self-concept boost that came from owing money for educational costs was highest among people who came from lower socioeconomic backgrounds. and I can imagine, if I decide to go to graduate school, that I’ll have some feeling of pride that I was able to finance such an important educational milestone on my own. I can also imagine that, as the researchers found, this pride will slowly be eclipsed by a growing sense of anxiety as the mountain of debt doesn’t get paid off as quickly as I anticipated.
So this is where I am: on the fence until the study gets some scholarly reviews. after all, I still haven’t read it in full. what do you think? Is Burris right, or does the study have some merits?
Take Action: Sign the petition to stimulate the economy by forgiving all student loans.
<a href="http://www.care2.com/causes/education/blog/debt-may-not-be-so-empowering-after-all/tag:news.google.com,2005:cluster=http://www.care2.com/causes/education/blog/debt-may-not-be-so-empowering-after-all/Thu, 09 Jun 2011 08:06:16 GMT 00:00″>Debt May Not Be So Empowering After All
Birdies’ song in full flow from rescued baby Great Tits 4:53pm Friday 20th may 2011 Print Email Share Comments(11) BIRD LOVER Maureen Skinner has put her life on hold to nurture seven baby Great Tits abandoned by their mother at just several days old. Last week, Maureen, 63, of Watermead, Stratton St Margaret, noticed that [...]
Birdies’ song in full flow from rescued baby Great Tits
4:53pm Friday 20th may 2011
- Share
- Comments(11)
BIRD LOVER Maureen Skinner has put her life on hold to nurture seven baby Great Tits abandoned by their mother at just several days old.
Last week, Maureen, 63, of Watermead, Stratton St Margaret, noticed that the newborn birds’ parents had left the nest and the babies were crying out to be fed.
“There is one tiny bird which I call Baby Baby, and I keep my eye on him to make sure he gets extra food, his feathers haven’t quite formed properly yet but I am hoping he will be ok.”
Maureen Skinner
She shooed away an intruding magpie from the nest box in her back garden and brought the birds in to safety in her own home.
For the past week, she has kept a close eye on the seven feathered friends, who she describes as her ‘babies’, in the hope that within the next few days they will be ready to fly the nest for good.
Every hour, from 7am until 8pm every day, she feeds the birds a concoction of raw mince, scrambled egg and grated cheese using a pair of tweezers as recommended by friend and bird expert Steve Osbourn.
She said: “Without Steve’s advice I wouldn’t have known what to do and the birds probably wouldn’t have made it,” she said.
“There is one tiny bird which I call Baby Baby, and I keep my eye on him to make sure he gets extra food, his feathers haven’t quite formed properly yet but I am hoping he will be ok.
“The first day I brought them in they were so hungry they had no fear of me at all.”
Maureen said it was an achievement in itself to have attracted Great Tits into her garden, let alone see seven babies born there.
She said: “We had a new bird box put up recently which was to attract Blue Tits, but one day we saw a Great Tit looking at it, and they are much bigger birds and the hole wasn’t big enough for him, so we adjusted the box and now this has happened, its is really quite an achievement.”
Maureen and her husband Graham, 68, were due to go away to their holiday home this week but have put their plans on hold to ensure the birds are taken care of.
Maureen said: “My life is on hold at the moment, it is like having children but the good thing about it is at about 8pm they go quiet because they go to sleep until 7am the next day so I get to catch up with my energy and relax.
“They are hungry little things and need feeding every hour.
“I have to take them out of the box one by one to ensure they all get fed, and they stretch their little necks up and open their mouths. I am really enjoying it, and I have said to my husband we can’t go away now because I have to see it all through.
“This morning I came down and noticed one of the birds had come out of the nest and was perched on the little branch I have put up against it in my kitchen which was lovely.
“They have to do it naturally though, it is no good just letting them out and telling them to fly off.”
Maureen is expecting the birds, which she thinks are about 18 days old, to be ready to leave the nest within the next couple of days.
<a href="http://www.swindonadvertiser.co.uk/news/9040684.Birdies__song_in_full_flow_from_rescued_baby_Great_Tits/tag:news.google.com,2005:cluster=http://www.swindonadvertiser.co.uk/news/9040684.Birdies__song_in_full_flow_from_rescued_baby_Great_Tits/Fri, 20 May 2011 15:54:49 GMT 00:00″>Birdies’ song in full flow from rescued baby Great Tits (From Swindon Advertiser)
Tweet Granted, it’s just one poll, but it is the first time ever in this specific poll that support for legal gay marriage has outweighed opposition, and the long term trends in the poll are telling. I’ve long argued that Republicans should drop opposition to gay marriage, mostly because it’s the right thing to do [...]
Granted, it’s just one poll, but it is the first time ever in this specific poll that support for legal gay marriage has outweighed opposition, and the long term trends in the poll are telling.
I’ve long argued that Republicans should drop opposition to gay marriage, mostly because it’s the right thing to do (proponents of limited government shouldn’t be proponents of micromanaging the romantic lives of consenting adults) but also because increasingly it’s going to be a political liability.
“God, gays and guns” is the old saying about the GOP’s recipe for success. But our society is changing. Opposition to gays, and opposition to gay issues like marriage, is decreasing. I’ve long sensed in my own generation (thirty somethings) a level of ambivalence toward gay issues. Younger Americans, if they’re not outright supportive of gay marriage, just don’t care that much about the issue.
There are some in this country who will never approve of homosexuality in general, let alone something like gay marriage, and that’s fine. I don’t begrudge people their religious or moral beliefs, but increasingly these people are going to be on the political margins.
Tags: gay marriage, homosexuality